Comments on: Mixed Up http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/ News. Views. Random thoughts. Occasional rants. Thu, 04 Dec 2008 18:24:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 By: James http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/#comment-3350 James Sat, 07 Apr 2007 10:10:31 +0000 http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/#comment-3350 It's ok to be angry. Just don't let it consume you. At this point in your life and hers, the best thing you can do for her is to take care of yourself. If you don't, then how have you validated her being a good mom :) It’s ok to be angry. Just don’t let it consume you.

At this point in your life and hers, the best thing you can do for her is to take care of yourself. If you don’t, then how have you validated her being a good mom :)

]]> By: kuri http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/#comment-2147 kuri Sun, 01 Apr 2007 14:49:08 +0000 http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/#comment-2147 My mom-in-law back in Japan has cancer too, so my wife has the same kind of conflict, torn between her mom and her family in America. She went back to help her through the surgery, but of course she had to come back once mom recovered a bit, even though the doctors are pretty pessimistic. So yeah, I can relate to how you're feeling. I see it every day. I know how hard it must be. My mom-in-law back in Japan has cancer too, so my wife has the same kind of conflict, torn between her mom and her family in America. She went back to help her through the surgery, but of course she had to come back once mom recovered a bit, even though the doctors are pretty pessimistic. So yeah, I can relate to how you’re feeling. I see it every day. I know how hard it must be.

]]> By: Amy http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/#comment-1986 Amy Sun, 01 Apr 2007 05:48:08 +0000 http://www.oakmonster.com/2007/03/29/mixed-up/#comment-1986 Awww honey, let it out. And you know she loves you and also you know there is no "IDEAL" anything. Awww honey, let it out. And you know she loves you and also you know there is no “IDEAL” anything.

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